For example, you can say something like "I haven't made up my mind yet" or "On the one hand, I can see the value of x, but on the other.." You can also suggest other options by saying things like "I have a friend who.." or 'I read somewhere that.."
Doing this gives you plausible deniability while retaining your sense of control. It also offers an escape hatch for others who have been afraid to speak up. Often all it takes is a single spark of ambivalence or mixed opinion. Once you crack open the door, others can gain the courage to follow.
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