If you sit on your ass and expect things to happen - you're wrong. They won't. Nobody will give you anything - you have to work and earn it. People also don't give a shit about what you say you will do. Hell, you will be lucky if they give a shit after you do it.
The bottom line is a weight will not move without effort. You can always lift light shit with little effort but expect the same in return (little reward). Straining harder will require more effort and risk but the return will be higher.
Still nobody will give a shit so make sure your doing it for the right reasons.
Interesting when you think about it. Nobody does really give a shit (except those who are very close to us and that's still a maybe) yet when faced with criticism people get pissed. To get pissed about this means an assumption has been made that someone did give a shit in the first place. The assumption is wrong so why care about something that they don't care about in the first place?
The only one who needs to care is YOU. My question would be if you can't handle the work, strain, stress, pressure, etc than maybe you really don't give a shit either because if you did you would be too busy trying to get better.
- Dave Tate